Sugar Focused

Ok after the terrible terrible terrible night that was last night. I have decided to jump completely into the sugar bowl. I set up my schedule so I can meet all the potentials all week! It is nuts, I know! And maybe a little callous and overzealous but seriously after last night I refuse REFUSE to put myself back into the Ex's brain warp. Before I started sugar dating, if me and Ex got into it so insanely like last night I would date date date to my heart's content. Just for fun and just to keep my mind off of it. I never was one to wallow in the drama of it all. So now that the sugar world is my oyster I'd much rather spend my time meeting potentials then dating Joe schmo from work. So here is the breakdown for now. Some of these dates are tentative and I can pretty much guarantee at LEAST 1 flaking out. So here we go.

Sunday: I am meeting with R. We are set to me up for a coffee date and then some shopping (Louboutin's I am eyeing you) in the early afternoon. He is very much the guy I am most looking to connect with as he is offering not only the allowances but also the gifts, shopping, and travel :D

Monday: Repose. The day to rest and organize outfits for the week. I plan on having some wine and taking a sugar rest day.

Tuesday: The Exotic Lover. He loves all things exotic: women, food, places, etc. I don't know too much about him but he has made the point to agree on what I am looking for. Not really sure what this will lead to...

Wednesday: Mr. Boat. This guy sounds like it could work. He absolutely loves all the pics I have sent him and is so excited to meet me. He seems like normal/average guy with normal/average life. I think he half-expects me to wake him from his life coma. He is very blase

Thursday: Aladdin. He looks like the real life version of Aladdin. He's sexxxy. Very, I could get lost in his eyes. His first pic took me off guard so I asked him to send me some silly faces pics (I like a guy who can be a cornball every so often) just to prove he wasn't a fake. He rocked it! Sent me lots of silly faces that I wish I could post. I think this date is going to be the most fun. He said he wants to go to a concert and just act nuts. I love it.

Friday: Teeth. Finally he returns :) So he mentioned a spa date which sounds great. After my hard sugar dating week (and last night) it will be a great way to relax :)

Except for Teeth, these are all first dates so I am not really expecting any sugar goodies. I am suspending my accounts for the week and am going to focus on these guys for now and see where they lead me. As for Producer, I explained to him that he is seriously like a friend to me and I just can no longer take any money from him and I made him pinky promise to stay friends with me. He was a little put off but he seemed to be OK with it. I just got back from some good Panera bread with him which I paid for ( i wanted him to know that I'm hanging with him bc of his personality not his wallet)! I can't get enough of him he is like my new instant bestie. Luckily he let his guard down and we got into a whole life/love/sugar talk which was great. Crazy how we just met and I felt instantly connected to him. We are heading to some movie screening tonight followed by a music session at his friend's studio :)

As far as the Ex goes, he of course, is all apologies this morning. Flowers and my fav candies waiting at my doorstep. I was going to chuck it all but gave the flowers to my mom who is extra moody these days to cheer her up a bit, and gave the candies to my niece.

xoxo

The Sugar Grail

The man (let's call him R since perfect amazingsugargrail is too long) I have been speaking to is talking a good game. This is all very overly hyped by me but it has been quite a while since an SD has made me really think the "Sugar Grail" was attainable. We had been emailing back and forth for some time, and he has been making some big promises. Monthly allowances, gifts, bills, etc etc. Anyways, we finally spoke on the phone. He was great and was looking for the real deal. No BS (maybe). Sigh I'm really really really really (did i say really?) excited about it all. We set up a date for Sunday. He asked me what I had my eye on lately and duh! i mentioned the Louboutin lace booties :)He says they're mine! YAY! I have been super struggling all summer. Barely any new anything *Sheesh.* Alright I'm out for now. Going to go blow Producer's money on a fab night out with my chicks :D

Quick Update in the Middle of the Night

Tonight I went out with Mr. Producer. I had e-mailed him on a whim this morning (you know, just to keep him around) and the boy decided to invite me to a watch "In The Heights" on Broadway. Well I loved the play and wasn't expecting much. I mean we had orchestra seats which was more then enough for me. To think I wasn't even excited about it! Anyways, after the show he let me drive his beautiful lexus around nyc (risky business but this guy had an awesome personality). I mean he drops the F bombs like nobody's business, laughs all the time, and makes ridiculously sarcastic remarks about everything. He was like me, with boy parts! I mean seriously we got along great and it was fun to have that young dynamic going on. He's only 28 (trust fund baby) with nothing to do all day but charm his way through the East Village. I mean seriously awesome but (grr) I'm so scared of him in some ways. I mean this is the guy I would fall in love with and I'm just not willing to put myself in that space right now. I love my boyfriend insanely and I'm not going to juggle emotions. no shot. Anyways, after all was said and done i came home with $500 bucks although I tried (repeatedly) to tell him to keep it (scooby doo noises go here) WHAT?!?! hahaha i know so unsugar babyish of me but seriously I felt like his friend. It didn't even feel good. Womp womp :(

O well, I'm slightly richer now so yay me! There have been some rumblings in sugarworld as far as potentials but no one i'm willing to think up a name for just yet. till next time

xoxo

Sugar Surge

This update comes to you courtesy of my scatterbrained mind. I seem to have had a sugar surge and can't keep track of all the potentials. I knew as soon as I'd signed onto website #3 things would pick up. It just felt right. And my inkling was right. I've had more sugars contact me then I can keep track of. It might not be too many in comparison to some other SB's but to me, it's seems like alot.

#1: Teeth: O my sweet sweet Teeth. He called this morning to tell me he had gotten an early flight back and he wanted to see me tonight! I was so excited bc like I have said(insert vomit-inducing noises here) he is my top choice. I'm not sure why really. And I don't know if he can give me what I am looking for but for whatever reason I like him.

#2: The Doctor. He is an interesting guy. He seems to know what he is looking for. I don't think I fit his criteria but for whatever reason he continues to pursue me. Whether or not it will work is questionable. As much as I prefer monthly arrangements he prefers to pay per visit :( OK fine. whatever

#3: Mr. Spontaneous. This guy is tricky tricky tricky. He wants a sincere and genuine girl, not a pro by any means. (duh) And according to his profile he has more then enough to give me the world. And by the world I mean whatever my heart desires. He would set me up with a monthly allowance if all goes well. Also he's the guy that will call you Friday night to go to Paris with him for the weekend. Sheesh idk if I can handle all that, but I'm definitely par for the course ;)

#4: Boca. Didn't I give this douchebag up? Well i thought I did but he's on the back burner for now. My sister (yes sugarhunting runs in the family, read: first post, momma comes up) is interested in what he's offering. She does not have the time for the GFE and needs a guy who is in and out so to speak. Yes, the block of ice filling the cavity where my heart once was does tend to melt with these things. I'm not a Bocanette.

#5, 6, 7: Producer, Yaps, and LePeu. These three I bunch together only because I have completely ignored them for one reason or another. I'm still throwing them a bone every once in a while just in case. I have a problem with cutting the cord (See #4). Producer caught my attention from a CL (is that a pig flying by my window?) ad but he's so boring and Villagey. Yaps is looking for someone to have lunch with every day and talk about world politics. (yawn). And LePeu stood me up once before although he says it was traffic. Clearly i've been quite the asshole towards him.

Then there's the boyfriend. O yea did I forget to mention him? We have been together for years (6 in Feb). He's complicated. And by complicated I mean immature. He loves me, I am fully aware, but he is not ready to show me his love. He spends most of his time these days out drinking and gallavanting with his friends. This, I can't fault him for. He's 23, this is what you do at this age. BUT, I'm so far passed him mentally at this point that I just don't have the patience for him to catch up. Our relationship has been rocky from the jump. Passionate fights. Passionate love. Typical. Aside from all that he never took the time to go to college and at this point has no sense of direction for his life. Until he gets it together, CherryCakes is diving into the sugarbowl. Head first.

Tonight, is a night for celebrating. I spent last night in complete disarray. Asking God (or whoever is up there) to show me something. I've been feeling so hopeless. He sent me at least a nice night out with Teeth. THANK YOU! Now I must go figure out what to wear.

xoxo