Sugar Focused

Ok after the terrible terrible terrible night that was last night. I have decided to jump completely into the sugar bowl. I set up my schedule so I can meet all the potentials all week! It is nuts, I know! And maybe a little callous and overzealous but seriously after last night I refuse REFUSE to put myself back into the Ex's brain warp. Before I started sugar dating, if me and Ex got into it so insanely like last night I would date date date to my heart's content. Just for fun and just to keep my mind off of it. I never was one to wallow in the drama of it all. So now that the sugar world is my oyster I'd much rather spend my time meeting potentials then dating Joe schmo from work. So here is the breakdown for now. Some of these dates are tentative and I can pretty much guarantee at LEAST 1 flaking out. So here we go.

Sunday: I am meeting with R. We are set to me up for a coffee date and then some shopping (Louboutin's I am eyeing you) in the early afternoon. He is very much the guy I am most looking to connect with as he is offering not only the allowances but also the gifts, shopping, and travel :D

Monday: Repose. The day to rest and organize outfits for the week. I plan on having some wine and taking a sugar rest day.

Tuesday: The Exotic Lover. He loves all things exotic: women, food, places, etc. I don't know too much about him but he has made the point to agree on what I am looking for. Not really sure what this will lead to...

Wednesday: Mr. Boat. This guy sounds like it could work. He absolutely loves all the pics I have sent him and is so excited to meet me. He seems like normal/average guy with normal/average life. I think he half-expects me to wake him from his life coma. He is very blase

Thursday: Aladdin. He looks like the real life version of Aladdin. He's sexxxy. Very, I could get lost in his eyes. His first pic took me off guard so I asked him to send me some silly faces pics (I like a guy who can be a cornball every so often) just to prove he wasn't a fake. He rocked it! Sent me lots of silly faces that I wish I could post. I think this date is going to be the most fun. He said he wants to go to a concert and just act nuts. I love it.

Friday: Teeth. Finally he returns :) So he mentioned a spa date which sounds great. After my hard sugar dating week (and last night) it will be a great way to relax :)

Except for Teeth, these are all first dates so I am not really expecting any sugar goodies. I am suspending my accounts for the week and am going to focus on these guys for now and see where they lead me. As for Producer, I explained to him that he is seriously like a friend to me and I just can no longer take any money from him and I made him pinky promise to stay friends with me. He was a little put off but he seemed to be OK with it. I just got back from some good Panera bread with him which I paid for ( i wanted him to know that I'm hanging with him bc of his personality not his wallet)! I can't get enough of him he is like my new instant bestie. Luckily he let his guard down and we got into a whole life/love/sugar talk which was great. Crazy how we just met and I felt instantly connected to him. We are heading to some movie screening tonight followed by a music session at his friend's studio :)

As far as the Ex goes, he of course, is all apologies this morning. Flowers and my fav candies waiting at my doorstep. I was going to chuck it all but gave the flowers to my mom who is extra moody these days to cheer her up a bit, and gave the candies to my niece.

xoxo

Quick Update in the Middle of the Night

Tonight I went out with Mr. Producer. I had e-mailed him on a whim this morning (you know, just to keep him around) and the boy decided to invite me to a watch "In The Heights" on Broadway. Well I loved the play and wasn't expecting much. I mean we had orchestra seats which was more then enough for me. To think I wasn't even excited about it! Anyways, after the show he let me drive his beautiful lexus around nyc (risky business but this guy had an awesome personality). I mean he drops the F bombs like nobody's business, laughs all the time, and makes ridiculously sarcastic remarks about everything. He was like me, with boy parts! I mean seriously we got along great and it was fun to have that young dynamic going on. He's only 28 (trust fund baby) with nothing to do all day but charm his way through the East Village. I mean seriously awesome but (grr) I'm so scared of him in some ways. I mean this is the guy I would fall in love with and I'm just not willing to put myself in that space right now. I love my boyfriend insanely and I'm not going to juggle emotions. no shot. Anyways, after all was said and done i came home with $500 bucks although I tried (repeatedly) to tell him to keep it (scooby doo noises go here) WHAT?!?! hahaha i know so unsugar babyish of me but seriously I felt like his friend. It didn't even feel good. Womp womp :(

O well, I'm slightly richer now so yay me! There have been some rumblings in sugarworld as far as potentials but no one i'm willing to think up a name for just yet. till next time

xoxo